Nonverbal messages

Integrating with verbal messages

 To contradict verbal message - yelling and shaking one's fist while proclaiming "no, I am not angry!"

Forming and managing impressions

To be liked: you smile and par someone on the back and shake hand warmly

To be believed: giving a firm stance and focused eye contact

To excuse failure: looking sad and cover your eyes and shake head

To secure help: showing helpless you, a puzzled looks and inept movement 

To hide faults:avoid self-adaptor 

To be followed: dress like part of a leader

To confirm self-image and communicate it to others:decorate your apartment with things that reflect your personality 

Relationships 

Communication affection,support and love in part at least non verbally. And also communication of displeasure,anger and animosity throughout nonverbal signals

Using your nonverbal signal to communicate the nature of your relationship to another person

Structuring conversation 

You give and receive cues that you're ready to speak,listen, or comment on what the speaker just said. Cues that regulate and structure the interaction.

Influencing and deceiving 

Influence others not only through what you say but also exert influence through your nonverbal signals.

Expressing emotion

Explaining and revealing your emotion to others

The channels of nonverbal communication 

Body movement

Five types of movement

Emblem: body gestures that directly translate into words or phrases 

Illustrator: illustrate with hands ,head and general body movements

Affect displays: movement of face and also can include hands and general body that communicate emotional meaning 

Regulator: behavior that monitor,control, coordinate or mantain the speaking of other individual 

Adaptor:

Self-adaptor:self-touching movement

Alter-adaptor:movement directed at the person with whom you are speaking

Object-adaptor:gestures focused on objects

Body appearance

Facial communication

Communicate in various message especially your emotions.

Facial management 

To intensify: to exaggerate your astonishment at a surprise party party to make your friends feel better

To deintensify: to hide your own happiness s about your good news

To neutralize: to cover up your sadness to not depress others

To mask: to express happiness in order to cover your sadness

To stimulate: to express an emotion you didn't feel

Eye communication

Eye contact is a form of nonverbal communication and is thought to have a large influence on social behavior.

Eye contact: when two people look at each other's eyes at the same time

Eye avoidance: avoiding eye contact during the talk with others is a rude action but  on contrary meaning is to help others maintain their privacy